When Ana sits down to read the contract, she gets too overwhelmed but, in her mind, she knows that if she says no to this BDSM relationship with Christian she will have no relationship with him at all. When they meet for dinner on their next date, they discuss the terms & conditions of the contract and also hard & soft limits for Ana. She talks about having a romantic relationship instead which Christian refuses. Overwhelmed Ana drives herself back home and the next time she sees Christian is at her graduation where he is delivering the commencement speech. Thereafter she agrees to be his “submissive”.
When they meet next Christian starts giving Ana her training starting with spanking her. Ana gets to spend more time with Christian, specifically in the red room of pain. While Ana is madly in love with Christian, she can’t understand why he runs away from her affections and only wants to control them. We are told about how an older Mrs. Elena seduced Christian when he was only 15 and, in that relationship, he was the submissive. And how Elena taught him to never let go of control in his own life. We can understand his own 50 demons (from Buddhism), the inspiration behind the book title.
Ana keeps on thinking about whether to continue with this controlled relationship with Christian, even though she wants an intimate, romantic, close relationship. Ana then tells Christian that she wants to know how bad the physical pain can get and to this Christian hits Ana with a belt. She stops him and realizes that she can never become who he needs her to be and he cannot become what she wants and live without physical dominance. With this realization, she ends her relationship with Christian and is driven back home, crying.
The next book in the trilogy shows how both Christian and Ana realize they can’t live without each other. Christian proposes and agrees to live on Ana’s conditions: no contract, no bondage. And she accepts. In the final book, they have kids and live a romantic life together.
The book has been variously called “an awesome romance novel” and “utter trash”. I read somewhere this quote: “Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breath-taking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this moment you’re a part of them”. And maybe that is the everlasting success of the book – it elevates love-making to real love.
The book is for mature readers (17+ age rating). At times, just as you wish the relationship between Ana and Christian would be more romantic, Ana would be bound and gagged in a crate or would be getting punished for rolling her eyes. Critics have demanded that the character of Ana should have shown more self-respect and left Christian much earlier. Critics have also lambasted that the book depicts an inaccurate portrayal of a real BDSM relationship between two parties. No wonder, it has been banned often but finally approved given its vast popularity and because it depicted a relationship that was fundamentally consensual between two adults.
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